It's A Time To Be Selfless And Selfish

     I seen a post on IG(Instagram) There's a time to be selfless and there's a time to be selfish. That's a question I never thought of...I battle with being selfless. So, when I woke up that morning and seen that post it really made me think because I never thought about selfless. I looked up both words Selfless means concerned more with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own; and Selfish is of a persons, action, or motive lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's personal profit or pleasure. I have been in selfless mode for a long time because I really care about the needs and wishes of everyone else besides my own. Its a good character to have at times but not all the time, and after while I learn to step it back to be a little selfish at times but I really don't like using that word selfish. I rather use growing up being balance with yourself. For example; someone ask you for money you say yes first time, second time, and third time you get the picture. People will use you and take your kindness for weakness but, whatever you do, do it from the heart and don't  look for it back, do what you can, not to carry other people loads and knowing God will provide you with whatever you need because he sees your heart. When I say balance yourself because you will find yourself lacking  the care of yourself doing and doing for others, taking the load  and emotional it will hurt because it is not a lot of people out here that is selfless everyone now a days is very much selfish and only care for there selves and what they can get. Again know what season you are in and balance yourselves....